如果男人和女人不要受苦他们能用小钱解决，但是他们用他们一生的青春和精力养一些“原本就不存在”的东西。“小孩子原本就没有权力去决定出生或死亡。”Be thankful plz for those suicider. (these are my comments on my mate's blog.)
Well many of us may not noticed, our life are fragile, and we can just easily make many mistakes that we can never go back, which at first we may think that was the "best solution" that it seemd to be, when at the end, you might noticed that's not the only way.
Abortion seemed like what many people choose to be when they have unplanned pregnancy, where nowadays people can easily choose "abortion" coz for our generation, "RM 1000 is not a problem" coz we can get it from parents or part-time jobs. But maybe 10 years later, 20 years later, when we look back into our live, we might just make a terrible mistakes.
And if we think in the past, when our parents just have us in the mum's tummy, and they may just as in the same situation as us. Financial unprepared, unplanned pregnancy, when everyone says "abort it", our parents decided to give born to us. And what if at that time our parent's decision is "abort it"? Then what are we today? Just flesh and blood in the past that no one might knows.
And after I know the hardship my parents have to go through to have me, I really feel grateful. coz if they are not trying hard to get me, I might just be as what "my sister" now, being abort by my parents coz they think they might not be able to give the best to their child.
Then how come they want "me" again? Coz of the only child screaming around wanting for another child to accompany him. Or else you all won't see this "Me" writing at here, chatting with you all, movie with you all, study with you all, exam with you all, happy with you all, sad with you all. There won't be "Yap Kim Pui aka Wini" that exist in this world. How creepy it could be huh.
And think of it, one day we might have our own child, and when your child ask you back then "why I don't have a sister/brother just like what my other friends are?" while the truth is we adults go abort the "sisters/brothers" that he/she could have. Will you be regret by that time?
I really don't know what we should do when we have "babies" in future but no matter what it is, if you don't mean to have one, better remove or "cut down" the reproduction organ and make sure nothing can happen then.
Labels: precious life
October 2007